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“Loss may be out of our control, but remembrance is our act of defiance.” Whoa. I read it again. John Mayer posted that? Last week, I came across his Instagram post about his long-time pal, Bob Saget, who recently would have celebrated his 68th birthday. In the heartfelt tribute, that sentence hit me hard. It put it all in perspective. When you lose a loved one, the holidays are hard. Their birthday can be even harder. I don’t care if you like his music or not, @johnmayer gets it. He’s one of us